Keeping long distance relationships can be tough, but they can be super rewarding if you put in the effort. You know? Keeping it fresh is all about staying connected emotionally and keeping things interesting. Here are a few things I think could help.
Surprise each other, random text, small gifts, or sending them something that reminds you of a good memory. It’s the little surprises that show your thinking about each other. Maybe send them a handwritten letter or a small care package.
Be spontaneous. You can still have a fun and spontaneous moment even if you’re far away. Video calls don’t always seem to have to be scheduled. Send a voice memo or call when you’re both free. It keeps things lively.
Make time for the small stuff, like talk about your day. Share the mundane details. It might sound boring, but it’s the stuff that helps you feel close to someone when you’re apart. Plan visits or trips if you can. Plan when you’ll see each other next having a countdown is always fun and it gives you both something to look forward to.
Play games together, find online games or apps that let you compete or collaborate. It adds a fun element and you’re both working towards a shared goal.
Set goals together, not just for the relationship but for life in general, like fitness goals or reading challenges. It keeps you both motivated and your kind of growing together, even from a distance.
Stay honest. It’s easy to hold back, but being real about how you’re feeling, good or bad, makes a world of difference. That transparency can keep things grounded.
Late night movie sessions Pick a movie press play at the same time and text each other your reactions. It feels like you’re watching it together even when you’re apart.
Send each other playlists. Curate a playlist for them based on how you’re feeling or make one for different moments you shared.
Write a letter. I’m talking the old fashioned, handwritten kind. It’s such a personal way to share your thoughts and you can keep it forever.
Send voice memos. Sometimes hearing someone’s voice is way better than a text. You can even record a sweet random message in the middle of your day.
Ok these are mine. Can you think of ones I can pass on to my readers just hit the comment button and leave your suggestions in the box and don’t forget your e-mail so I can let you know which were the most popular.
